The Joy Luck Club—Open your heart必赢娱乐

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The Joy Luck Club—Open your heart必赢娱乐

必赢娱乐,  TOP147.com讯 新加坡时间15号晚,九球世界杯随着中华夏族民共和国队的亮相引来了第一波小高潮。由新加坡市职员和工人接受产生的中中原人民共和国B队不负职务,以7-2的比分轻取远道而来的南非共和国队,得到开门红。赛前,TOP147的央视访员也第有的时候间访问了两边选手。

“All of us like stairs, one step after another. Going up, going down,
but always going the same way.” This sentence is from An-Mei. It might
not be correct, but in some way, it also illustrates the relationship
between the mother and daughter, we are always linked together, the
feeling we need each other is so strong. Watching this movie, I felt I
saw myself, my mom, and the way we treat each other. Lack of
communication might be the most important problem, why people just can’t
tell others what they really want, what they really care about. In the
film, the four mothers are Chinese immigrants and their daughters are
America-raised, the culture’s different between mother and daughter lead
to the different values, it might be another problem that we can’t
understand each other. So, how to act properly as being daughters and
mothers?

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This film is talking about four stories of mothers and daughters. As
immigrants, all of the four mothers have a tough experience before they
come to America, they have A American dream that their daughter can’t
understand. The American dream is a belief that life would be better and
richer. They just hope their daughter not to experience what they have
experienced in China, they hope their daughter can achieve something.
But sometimes they express in a wrong way, so there must be a lot
conflicts.

首先是客人南非共和国队:

Just like Waverly and her mother Lindo, they have a conflict for a long
time. They never express their real thoughts so that they
misunderstanding each other for so many years. Waverly think Lindo was
not satisfied with her. Lindo think Waverly was embarrassing and ashamed
to be her daughter, and I think this thought hurt Lindo’s self-esteem so
that she always shows she’s not satisfied with her daughter. And, the
reason why Lindo would have this thought is that she is a Chinese woman.
I think Lindo is an aggressive and very independent woman, Waverly just
like her mother. When Lindo was young, she already knew what kind of
person she wants to be and what kind of life she really wants, so she
can leave her Chinese husband to the United States. She is so brave and
intelligent, she’s not often smiling, Waverly is a little afraid of her
even though she’s grow up. Lindo didn’t give Waverly enough attention,
praise, and affirmation. No matter what Waverly do, she just can’t get
her mother’s favour, it hurts Waverly a lot. She is always thinking how
to please her mother. But Lindo never know Waverly’s thoughts. Waverly
and Lindo never had a good communication until Waverly’s getting
married.

Q:This is not the first time that you play in China. You played Chinese
Billiard before. What`s the difference between the two
envents?(那不是你第二遍来中华竞赛了。您已经踏足过英式斯诺克的赛事。您感觉那二种类型里面有何样差别?)

They never want to hurt each other, but why their act make others
misunderstand? Why they do that? It reminds me of the Pygmalion Effect.
Praise, trust and expect have a kind of power, it can change people’s
behavior, when a person get another person’s trust and praise, he will
feel won the social support, so as to enhance the self value, become
self-confidence, self-esteem, and achieve a positive power, and try our
best to reach the other side of the expect. We influence each other.
Pygmalion effect tells us, to a person transfer positive expectations,
will make him progress faster and better development. On the other hand,
with one transfer negative expectations will make the person giving up,
give up efforts. Waverly and Lindo didn’t give each other any positive
behavior, so they just can’t get positive response, I think it may be a
circulation. If no one gives the first step, the circulation would never
stop. In Waverly is still a child, her mother didn’t give enough praise,
even though Waverly is growing up, she still feel her mother is against
her all the time. What’s more, they don’t communicate too much, they
even don’t know each other’s real mind. They both refused to compromise,
it results in the conflict be there for so many years.

R.Halliday:Great! They are different games and I think 9 ball requires
a lot more and needs better position. You need to play the cue ball
better. But in Chinese Billiard,potting is more
important.(特别对。那是两种天壤之别的运动,9球需求更康健的本事和更加精致的走位,你须求将母球调整得更加细致。而榜上有名斯诺克更讲求准度的须求。)

There are full of confusion and misunderstandings in our life, because
we always think what we think is right and then do the wrong thing.
Sometimes we will feel that we are so strange that we can’t understand
each other. But please open heart and open mouth, try to forgive them.
We never know what they mean to us until we lose them, and please don’t
wait until that time. When people closer, they are easier to hurt each
other, I believe even the misunderstanding is still a kind of love. In
the film, June never understand her mother even though her mother dead.
June said, “I didn’t know anything about her(June’s mother)”.

Q:This is a special match for you because you face Team China as well as
the Chinese supporters. How did you solve the problem and how to deal
with the
pressure?(那是一场非常的比赛,因为你们面前遭受的中黄炎子孙民共和国队负有太多主场的跟随者。你们是怎么解决那几个难度怎么应对这种压力的?)

June’s mother is Suyuan. Suyuan hopes June can get the best, be the
best, and be the best piano player in China. She thinks June can be
anything, anything she wanted. Whether Suyuan’s really think so, but
June believes she is thinking and Suyuan had really said so. June
doesn’t like piano and she know she doesn’t have the talent, she think
her mother never see that what she really is. June wants to prove her
mother was wrong, she didn’t have any talent, she is only an ordinary
person, as an ordinary person, she also thought she didn’t deserve the
best. When she grew up, she would say she is modest, always take care of
others. I think Suyuan’s expect must be a big pressure to June, June
will feel hurt if she doesn’t meet Suyuan’s expectation, and she doesn’t
want to let her mother to be disappointed. For a little girl, Suyuan’s
expectation is too hard. June even thought she must be the big
disappointment in her mother’s life.

R.Halliday:Yes,when you play in someone`s own ground,it`s not
always easy. But I used to play a lot in China,so I didn`t think too
much about
it.(是的,当您在人家的主场竞技时,总是极度困难的。不过笔者每每在中夏族民共和国比赛,早就习于旧贯这种气氛,所以本人并未前怕狼后怕虎。)

But absolutely, there’s a misunderstanding. One time, after a quarrel at
the dinner, Suyuan told June that she never expect, only hope, only hope
the best for June, it’s no wrong to hope. But she never knows every time
she hope for something June couldn’t deliver, it hurts June. June said,
“And no matter what you hope for, I would never be more what I am, and
you never see that what I really am”. Her mother’s hope just likes a big
burden, not love.

J.Le Roux:I think the pressure is equal to all the players. But I
didn`t feel much
pressure.(作者觉着压力对两方都是公正的,何况本身也未有体会到过多的压力。)

Mothers always think their kids should get something what they think is
the best, but most of the time, it’s not what the child really want.
Mothers never ask, only commands. In Chinese traditional concept, the
family not only represents the absolute power of parents, but also means
the interdependent relationship between parents and children. But in
America, the individualism values encourage people struggle, stressed
self realization and independent consciousness.

The Joy Luck Club—Open your heart必赢娱乐。Q:You played in China for a lot of times,and you also become more and
more famous here. Can you say something to your supporters?

In the film, the four mothers try hard to be Americans, to accept
American values, but in fact, they still agree with Chinese culture. For
their daughters, they didn’t have a clear cognition for china, they even
don’t know how to speak Chinese, they agree with American values and way
of life. When mother and daughter talking, mother used to say “you
Americans blabla ”, and daughters used to say “we Americans blabla ”,
they divided each other into different group unconsciously. So there
must be a little prejudice between them. I think it may be a reason why
June wants to prove her mom is wrong, I still remember when June was a
little girl, she ever said to her mother, “I am not your slave, this is
not china, you can’t make me”. It’s cute, but it also hurt her mother.
Besides, the different values are also the reason why Lindo thinks
Waverly must be embarrassing to be her daughter.

大切诺基.哈尔liday:Yeah I think Chinese fans are the best. They are always
behind you,and you can always expect full crowed. I love to play in
China.(是的,作者觉着中中原人民共和国独具最佳的观球的观众,他们直接在你身后辅助着您,你也能够憧憬一下客满的看台。笔者那几个爱怜在炎黄竞赛。)

Lucky, in the last two generations have buried the hatchet. Mothers
broke the silence and have a communication with their daughter. When
daughters meet difficulties and frustration, mothers on their own
initiative to help them to analyze and solve problems, and encourage
them. On the other hand, as the growth of the age, daughters began to
listen to mother’s talk, and gradually understand mother, and thinking
the relationship between mother and daughter. They totally understand
how they care and love each other.

J.Le Roux:I didn`t play in China,and it is the first time. The people
welcome me,and I`ll come back
later.(笔者还还未有在炎黄比赛的经验,那是率先次。可是此间的人热情款待我们,笔者会再来的。)

This film let us realize the communication problem between mother and
daughter, it’s helpful for us to avoid misunderstanding and conflict
between mother and daughter. No doubt, it really touch me, it is
amazing. Each daughter is mother’s hope. No matter misunderstanding,
conflicts, or something else are the performances of love. The more we
love, the more we hurt. All we need to do is open our heart, understand
them, forgive them, be kind to them, and love them.

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接下去是中华夏族民共和国队的收罗:

Q:孔德京,这一回,你年纪轻轻就参加那样规模的比赛,有哪些感想?

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